Dating more than one
The reality is, men worry and obsess, too—just about different things. Men look for loyalty in a woman, and while “Stand by Your Man” may have been a hit for Tammy Wynette—to say nothing of the long list of women who have made it their mantra over the years, from Hillary Rodham Clinton to Mary Jo Buttafuoco — don’t think for one minute a man will begin singing the same tune! Guys that have been betrayed, especially in the bedroom, are far less likely to forgive their partners than women would be in the same situation.Women can win big points by supporting their man in front of colleagues and friends and defending him when necessary.If you read my book, Think & Date Like A Man, you'll see why. yourself); in other words, you have to present the best product with not only the best structural quality, but also the best packaging, and advertising possible.Here's an excerpt: Suppose for a moment that you eliminate all of the intangible woman-fluff that traditionally accompanies dating -- in other words, take away romance and fate so that you’re left with a pragmatic, practical point of view. (You must have the best possible inner and outer selves.) 4.If you don’t quite get why we’re so different and why we have to respect those differences, read on!You’ll be shocked to discover how different love is for men and women. In fact, you want him to want to know everything about you.
Men are coming from a completely different place and traveling in a whole different mode of transportation.
Although it may sound great in theory, in the dating arena, the “over-share” will not only prove ineffective, it will probably send the man running in the opposite direction.
He doesn’t need to know everything right away – because he doesn’t want to know everything right away. If he gets you too easily, you’ll have denied him the chase he wants. Again, he may want you tonight (or tomorrow night), but he’ll want you even more if you’re already busy. Don’t you dare lean in to kiss him on the first date or on your second date, either.
I’ve also noticed that she’s happiest when she’s dating a couple of people at once.
This has changed now that she has started seeing someone she really likes, but until recently, I encouraged her to keep seeing this other, duddier guy throughout, just so she wouldn’t concentrate all of her anxieties on one dude.
The world’s best salesmen are lucky to maintain a 10% sales rate. If you’re not catching my drift yet, think of it this way: To win this game, you have to be the best company you can be, making the best product and selling the best services.